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  1. What is Compersion?

    This site describes and discusses the phenomenon of compersion in personal relationships, with a focus on consensually non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships. It answers the question, "What is …

  2. What Compersion Teaches Us About Relationships

    Jan 16, 2023 · The term “compersion” was coined in the early 1990s by the Kerista community, a San Francisco-based polyamorous group that has since disbanded. Although nonmonogamists were the …

  3. Two Types of Compersion: An Empowering Distinction

    Oct 2, 2021 · Is compersion necessary for successful non-monogamous relationships? Well, it turns out, it depends on how we define “compersion”. I discovered that, far from being a single concept, …

  4. From Emotion to Orientation: Expanding Our Understanding of …

    Mar 1, 2025 · Rather than seeing compersion as an emotional response you either have or don't have, it becomes an orientation to relationships you can develop and strengthen over time.

  5. Demystifying Compersion: Insights from Marie Thouin’s …

    Aug 4, 2024 · Compersion refers to the broad range of positive attitudes, thoughts, and/or actions manifested in relation to one’s intimate partner’s extra-dyadic intimate relations.

  6. Marie Thouin's research on compersion in consensually non …

    In the context of romantic and sexual relationships, compersion refers to the empathetic feeling of joy one experiences when their partner takes pleasure from another relationship. Thus, the experience …

  7. Jessica Fern's Foreword to What Is Compersion?

    Mar 27, 2024 · In these pages, you will discover how compersion can serve as a catalyst for personal growth and relational harmony. Through the voices of diverse individuals, Marie's research …

  8. Compersion blog — What is Compersion?

    May 21, 2025 · In this blog, philosopher Shaun Miller explores compersion not just as an emotional response in non-monogamous relationships, but as a fundamental orientation to human connection. …

  9. Compersion in Everyday Life: Finding Empathic Joy Beyond Polyamory

    Mar 11, 2025 · We don’t need to open our marriages, or change our identities, to practice compersion. Instead, we simply need to notice where our empathy and love can stretch and expand into a …

  10. Kathy Labriola's articles on compersion — What is Compersion?

    You may have heard the term “Compersion” touted by people in open relationships. Compersion is a combination of pleasant thoughts and feelings you may experience towards your partner when they …